the journey of an Alienated Mom

the journey of an Alienated Mom – the story and how it came to be.

May 31, 2016
staying strong as an alienated parent

Staying Strong – Alienated Parent

Staying Strong as an alienated parent – what does that really mean? It is said that storms don’t last forever.  Living as an alienated parent can be likened to a storm.  Often the child (in my case the adolescent) isn’t even aware of what is playing out in the rejected parent’s world.  The rejected parent often has no idea how this is impacting their child because there is very little to no contact.  Staying strong is very important because the pain of being alienated can be all-consuming.  Some days it does consume me but to outsiders looking in, they wouldn’t be able to tell that […]
May 14, 2016

Parental Alienation – Indirect Manipulation

A lot of people think that Parental Alienation is very obvious and easy to identify – but the truth is indirect manipulation of a child is probably the most used tactic.  This produces the “independent thinker” phenomena in the child.  My ex says all the time that he does not stop my daughter from seeing me.  What he doesn’t realize is he doesn’t have to directly say it, his actions, his wife’s actions, their carefully selected words and the seeds that are planted have contributed to the alienation.  Due to the continuous indirect manipulation, my daughter is showing signs of splitting. […]
May 14, 2016

A letter to my Alienated Daughter – Mother’s Day

As an Alienated Mother – I sympathize with all Mothers out there who are separated from the children that they love. Dear E***; I hope you are well.  It has been a very long time since I have heard from you.  The last time I texted you, I asked if you would like to come over for a meal on a Sunday . . . that was a while ago now but you didn’t respond.  I have to assume that one of your favourite meals that I enjoyed cooking for our family is not one of your favourites any more.  I remember our […]
April 22, 2016

Alienated Mom – Never Give Up!

Never Give Up! I know I should Never Give Up!  I feel like I am at a stale mate.  I haven’t heard a word from my daughter for over a month.  As I woke this morning, the first thing I read was a precedent setting court case that happened in Canada just in the past few days.  It gave me hope to believe that some judges can get things right and help a parent to reunify with their child.  Unfortunately, I do not have the money to fight for my child – like many of us – spending thousands of […]